I keep seeing posts like this: When one door closes, another door opens. Says who? Sometimes I think it’s important to just marinate in the closed door, think about why it closed.

• What did I need to learn from it?
• What was I saved from?
• What more could I have done to get through that door?
• What will I do next time to ensure progress through my open door?

Sometimes that closed door is a good thing all by itself if…

I believe in intelligent design. How else can you explain the intricate detail of the human body, the human existence? It goes deeper than merely observing the physical body with all its systems, cells, organs, skin. We are intelligent, emotional, psychological beings who have the ability to reason, feel, and apply morals to our daily behaviors. Can you honest say that you believe it’s possible that all those functions and features can randomly come together or develop through…

When you’re abused, you feel

• Embarrassed
• Weak
• Broken
• Confused
• Insignificant
• Ashamed

When you’re abused, you feel hurt, you feel enraged, you feel afraid, and you feel guilty.



The truth is, none of it is your fault. You have been attacked, controlled, manipulated, victimized from the mind of an out of control person. Abuse was done to you to control you. You were the receiver of action…

Have you ever thought about all the things that make up you? I mean, have you truly looked at all the elements that comprise you – your likes, dislikes, passions, skills, talents? Have you considered the questions, “Why am I the way I am? Why do I like what I like? Why am I good at what I do? Why do I know what I know?”



It’s all there for a reason!



Someone may look at your skill of creative storytelling and call you a liar. Someone may look at your gift of visionary…